So after months of looking at schools, being treated badly by some of them and generally being given the run around, "Come back in March" - In March: "Oh, come back on the 27th".... Tenzing (my maid) and I finally found a school for her son. Tenzing's son, Tenzing (it's actually their last name), is 7 and he started school April 1st for the first time:) It was really an interesting process for me. There are three types of schools; government (which are not free but very cheap), public (which are private but mid-range cost) and private (which tend to be boarding schools). I was told by everyone here that Government schools are to be avoided, it is possible to get a good education but not always and that they are especially not good for boys (although I suspect that's just because people value boys' education more). Also though, since they are Tibetans in exile they don't have the proper papers to enroll in a government school so it would be quite difficult.The initial fees (which they call a donation) run from $20 to $300 (most that we looked at were about $100 - which is one month of Tenzing's salary). The more expensive schools don't include books and uniforms in those fees, the cheaper ones do. And then monthly fees range from $10 to $30. Busses are extra in all cases. I was very torn as to which type of school to agree to. I want Tenzing to be able to continue sending her son there after I leave so I don't want the fees to be too much and our agreement was that I would pay the initial fees and she would pay the monthly ones, so she needed to be able to afford those. We (she) finally found a school in the lower end that seems okay.
I was also torn as to what to pay for - obviously these costs are not high, for me. So why not just pay it all? In the end, I wanted her to be investing in the education as well (it's the reason PSI doesn't give its products away for free - people value things they pay for). I also didn't want to just pay for all the fun stuff (backpacks and lunch boxes). But I agreed to pay for her son to continue with a private tutor as well, as I suspect that it will be a struggle to start school all of a sudden, and I paid for uniforms and books (which at $40 seemed very expensive for India - I think the school is profiting). But you have to love his uniform, right?
It makes me very happy to know he's in school.
Is the school a sikh school or is it secular?
ReplyDeleteIt looks like they have a mission here in the DC area as well. If you want to check them out, they're having a celebration April 23 in Sterling, VA. Perhaps I can get the cool shirt too.
Mom- I think he has a grandmother. She in fact lives with them so you'll just have to wait.
ReplyDeleteIt is a sikh school but as they are buddhist, I suspect that it is for all faiths. The basic tenets of sikhism is that they don't believe in differences between caste (a big draw here) and I would assume religion is also part of that.
That is just fabulous. How exciting. Do you feel like your liite boy or your nephew just went to his first day of school?
ReplyDeleteYeah... that was supposed to say "your little boy" not "liite boy"....
ReplyDeleteI'm so glad this worked out- I remember talking to you about it when I was there in March. He looks adorble in his school uniform :)
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